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writes:Basically me and my best female friend used to be able to talk about anything and things used to come naturally so we have fun but about a month ago we admitted we liked each other, we haven actually gone out as a couple but we used to as friends and we haven talked about our feelings since, now we seem to run out of things to say so it gets awkward and because of that i keep saying stupid things to carry the conversation. i see her once every week when we have class. she tells me alot about her personal life and we tease each other about things and touch each other as in tap on the head, fixing each others cloths, play hitting etc, but we never actually talk like we used to, i just want to know whats going on between us now? shes a shy muslim girl if that helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the answers so far, the reason we haven't gone out as a couple is because it was Ramadan and she was fasting, i'm rubbish at relationships so can i ask how do i take it to the next level or at least get show i care about her without taking things too fast?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2009): I think it is obvious that you are both uncomfortable with the admission of feelings other than friendship, especially since a month has passed and you haven't asked her out or attempted to be romantic with her.She is shutting down more out of confusion and embarassment....you need to just start a dialogue or move this to the next level. I seriously doubt that you have run out of things to talk about.
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reader, Tine +, writes (21 October 2009):
 maybe you both just need to sit down together and work out whether or not this was such a good idea you both told each other you liked one another. Maybe she is thinking that you are too shy to talk about it just like you feel the same about her. Awkwardness between friends is very uncomfortable so since you know each other so well you should just air your feelings and sort the problem out.
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