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writes:So, I'm 17 and my friends around me are losing their virginity.. This one kid can hook me up with other virgin.. yada yada yada.. so i want to lose my virginity.. but i dont know how to approach this.. I'm really shy and slightly overweight, with no self-confidence.. what should i do??
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reader, MickyDredd  +, writes (21 October 2009):
It sounds like you want to just "lose your virginity" in a general sense. For most people sex is a very intimate thing. I think you should wait until you meet someone you really love. Then, losing your virginity won't just be some trophey you can boast to your friends about. It might just be the beginning of a meaningful relationship with someone who actually cares about you.
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reader, Moviefan +, writes (21 October 2009):
 Dont worry about it, dont just do it to do it im 19 and never had sex, as soon as you leave high school it doesn't matter if your a virgin or not except to yourself lol. Your going to be the only one that ultimately matters with that decision, do it for yourself and a significant other or no one. Just ignore what other people say about it, their just immature children trying to act like adults and putting themselves in a risky situation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2009): So what is your friend a pimp? Hook you up with another virgin? What kind of virgin is this? Some girl with leprosy, too, she can't remain a virgin one second longer or she might implode?
Since when is being a virgin something that you have to be ashamed of or get rid of because you are a certain age?
That is the stupidest thing that young people think they have to do. It is not something to take lightly and cast off of yourself as if it were some sort of affliction.
The best sex ever is shared with someone that you love dearly, wait until you have a relationship with a girl you love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2009): Don't do it just so you can say your not a virgin anymore thats really not a good reason.. i say wait until you find someone that you connect with and care about. trust me you don't want to do it with someone that doesn't care about you or will never talk to you afterwards its not a good feeling i would know. just wait don't do it just cause its whats in right now your virginity should be something you should keep until you find someone good to you. i`m not saying wait till marriage because i know not all (me included) might not want to wait or feel differently about it all. but what i`m saying is maybe you should wait till you really are ready for it. well Good Luck!
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reader, heyy +, writes (21 October 2009):
Really? That is completely ridiculous, it is a good thing to be a virgin! Be proud of yourself. Don't feel like you are inexperienced just because you haven't had sex. You should wait for the right person, because if you don't and you do it, it will be miserable and you won't enjoy it... I promise the best thing is to wait... Let a guy like you for you. Have morals, and be confident!
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