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writes:Hi.I have something worry about last night. I had met with that guy on the internet. We chat at online last night. Its our first time chatting. We was chatting about 3 hours and we have little conversation about sex. And I've show him my upper body (breasts). I just worring he would be put on youtube or something. should I worry about that? I ask him about that he said don't worry about it and trust him. I think I'm little stupid. I don't know what to do. That's my first time showing someone on the internet. You guys think he may do that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2009): As a mother that has a daughter, PLease do not ever do that again for various reasons. First this man could be a sexual predator and secondly have some self respect and pride in yourself. I am sure loads of girls might do this however, the girl that acts classy and nice is going to get the right attention from great guys. Please do not do that again!
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (21 October 2009):
 Sure! There is always that possibilty. But not on YouTube I own some adult sites myself and I will tell you many times people post stills from webcams that they take and recieve. And then later use them as profile pics on adult dating sites like FLING.com
Its pretty common
Women often take them as well and post them just as much as men.
I would consider not doing this in the future. Sadly things we write or photograph on or over the web really never leave. And please don't be surprised if it shows up on one of those sites.
Youtube is the least of your problems. As female anonymous states, it would be removed for content. If it was streaming video and he posts it on an adult website like REDTUBE or many adult social sites, he merely has to click on a box that says he has the right to post it.
At the ones I own I try to verify this as much as possble, as I screen everything posted before it goes up on my sites. Mostly because people like to post stuff that is copyrighted and pass it off as their own. But I am in the vast minority of site owners that do it. And many times I cant verify the owner, so in that case I don't allow it to be posted
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2009): Sorry that is hard to deal with. I would not trust him at all you hardly know him and he could be a sexual predator. I would say maybe you should not do this anymore. It is a bad situation and he probably will put them on the internet somewhere.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2009): This is such a common problem. If you look at this closely, he wanted you to talk about sex and flash to him. He seems abit desperate. If he puts it on youtube, it will probably be deleted for inappropriate content. Just try not to do it again, if you want to do it, make sure you don't show your face in it. Plus if you've just met them, I strongly advice you don't do it. Loads of men ask women to do it, loads do it and loads just click off the conversation. Depends which one you want to be really.
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