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writes:im 18 and i really like this guy who is 33 years old he likes me too , we know it's wrong ,but just can't gt enough of each other has anyone ever felt this before?what to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2009): communication is the key! Does he feel for you what you feel for him? Age could be more of a factor in this setting... are you mature enough to handle the pressure that fame brings? Only you two can answer that. Good luck sweetheart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionfirst of all i would like to thank everyone:)..and say that im sorry for not giving so much information earlier..maybe age isn't the only problem over here,well everyone around me thinks it is...im scared that i might fall in love with him and he's not on the same page as i am..he's a very famous rock star over here,and as you all watch in movies,girls all around...i have 4 girlfriends who are deeply in love with him and that scares me..i feel safe with him,i hate the thought of being so young would be causing a problem..and im becoming addicted to that guy..for he can make me smile..can make me forget..im scared of letting go..
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2009): sure we've felt this. Soft touch male is exactly right what i'm wondering is what causes this to be wrong? Is he married, a priest, a teacher? If he is available i dont think its wrong. Something to strongly consider and look at, but certainly not wrong. You guys could potentially be wrong for each other, or be together for 50 years! Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2009): I personally think that if you're of the legal age of concent in your country then there isn't anything wrong with it (as was previously mentioned as long as he's single). I think what's more important is that he's good to you, treats you with respect and makes you happy. But if you are concerned you could always talk to someone about it. Talk to your parents or any mature person in your life whom you trust and get their feedback. They will probably be worried about you getting hurt and about what the guy's intentions might be "Why can't he find someone his own age?" kind of thing. So maybe you should have him meet your parents and let them get to know him.There may also be legitimate questions of what sort of future the two of you can have with him being older? But I think if you're happy, everyone's legal and no one's getting hurt then why not?
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (21 October 2009):
 I agree with softtouchmale2003. I couldn`t have said it better myself! :)
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reader, softtouchmale2003  +, writes (21 October 2009):
 There's nothing wrong with being attracted to one another. What else would there to be wrong about that.
If the two of you have started seeing each other and the emotional energy is there, that energy can continue indefinitely if you want it to.
Unless of course one of you is single and the other one isn't.
Which is an interesting question, but not one presented by you.
So without much detail, just because there's a 15 year age gap does not mean there's anything wrong with your relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2009): There's nothing really wrong. Just a big age difference.
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