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*issKatie
writes:I have a childhood friend (guy) whom I lost contact for so many years. We weren't close though but we used to sat together in primary school. Somehow around April this year we were re united again through Facebook. He lives in United States currently and I live in Singapore. Last May I went to the US and he asked whether we could meet up. I said probably and then for some reasons I couldn't come to the place we agreed to meet (because it was in another state from which I stayed). He said no problem and told me that He will come to Singapore end of this year so we can meet up.So in the meantime (since last May this year) we email each other and he always ask me what I will be doing in the weekend and he always tell me what he'll be doing in weekend as well. Once I didn't reply to his email for days and he email me again asking why did I disappear?It's been 5 months already and not even once he calls me! I don't know what his intention is and I'm quiet afraid that he's leading me on.Any advice will be appreciated.
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reader, MissKatie +, writes (22 October 2009):
MissKatie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for both advices. As I know he likes to drive interstate (5 hours drive to a certain city)for like twice a month for some sort of group activities and also dinner. There could be a woman involved but at this time I have no right to be jealous as there is no commitment between us yet. So I guess time will unfold everything :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2009): He has probably gotten involved with a woman state side.
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (21 October 2009):
 I can't really see how he is leading you on. Going on what you have described, it seems he would very much like to meet you at the end of the year. He has e-mailed and shown interest and you admit, yourself that you didn't reply for quite some time. He may be wondering if your really interested to meet him.
It's just a friendship at this stage. You haven't seen eachother face to face for many years and nobody is going to offer commitment when they haven't even seen you or gotten to know you well.
Try not to read too much into it. Just e-mail back and forth, keep it friendly and see what happens when you meet at the end of the year...until then, you simply wont know how the story will unfold.
Aunty Em xx
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