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I'm ready to go to second base. How do I get him into action?

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Question - (21 October 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 November 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *arbar13 writes:

I want to go to second (feeling up) with my boyfriend but he always acts sexually awkward. He is really nice and I really like him and I can tell he likes me. I just feel like I am more sexually mature than he is and I don't know what to do.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009):

your not even sixteen your lil bit too young and that guy isnt sure cause he feels that he might freak you out so just slowly start talking about it and then slowly add sexuality to your conversations then he will get comfortable cause i am just like your boyfriend my girlfriend did that and now i am at second card cause i know that i can go ahead :) hope it helped

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2009):

Well I have 3 good ways

- talk dirty, he might get it

-make the first move and grab his man parts

- or guide his hand to ur lady parts

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2009):

He is probably plenty "ready" right now, he just doesn't wanna push you past your boundaries. I can't remember anyone I knew ever really not being ready to feel up a girl. Even when they wanted nothing to do with oral or intercourse they were still ready for boobs.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (21 October 2009):

You have to let him mature. If you force him to do anything before he's ready, he'll either freak out or tell eveyone! The important thing is not to rush and make sure he's relaxed. When he's ready, he'll know. don't rush it.

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