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writes:My boyfriend and I have sex 1 to 2 times a day. We both like kinky wild sex. The problem is that he often tells me to tell him my wildest fantasy, to not be afraid to tell him anything, to tell him something I haven't told him before. This really stresses me out as I have been completely open and willing to do or say anything.We are into BDSM, we have a lot of "stuff". We make new toys out of ice. I even got a girlfriend because he wanted me to. I have no problem watching him be with another girl. We watch porn, I find web sites, I let him do anything to me that he wants and I do the same to him. I have told him ALL of my fantasies, even made a lot of them up just to satisfy him.The problem is, he never seems to be satisfied. He just keeps wanting more and I am seriously at a loss for new fantasy ideas. Now when he tells me to tell him something I haven't before, I panic and my mind goes completely blank. I am seriously at a loss. I have been on SO many web sites looking for ANYTHING but haven't seen anything that we don't already do. What is he asking of me? I have no clue. Does anybody have any new or old ideas?Please help, getting stressed
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reader, robinp93401 +, writes (22 October 2009):
robinp93401 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThis is for "satindesire" I HAVE asked him about his fantasies and I DO talk openly with him about this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2009): Sounds like you two need a break! New fantasies are not to be mass produced like cars or something. He's tiring you out! If he wants new fantasies tell him to make them up himself.I suggest you two take a break from the kinky stuff. He wants something new? Try sex without talking. Try candle lights? Try romantic love making and no toys involved? That sounds like it can be different for sure. And give you a break. After that you might find yourself refreshed and ready for more kinky stuff, and maybe you have been inspired to new fantasies too ;)Other than that: do something on your own that does not include him. To get inspiration and stress down, do something you enjoy a lot where no one will expect anything. Once you let your mind breathe it might feel better.
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reader, softtouchmale2003 +, writes (21 October 2009):
 Its sounds like both of you are sensation junkies. That said, try joining a BDSM club and mingling with some more fetishists. You know you don't have to engage in just about everything 2x a day. Take a break and try and pick living out a few favorites now and then.
Truly, sometimes you just have to get cuddly and kinky.
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