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writes:my boyfriend and i have been together for almost two years now. he is living with family and is unemployed still. he make comments in reference to us in the future. for instance, like us having home together, kids, etc.. but what puzzles me is that when something doesn't go his way, he will still say things like "i'll just go home then" or "i should of just stayed home" or "so what we're not together every night". what do these comments mean? just mouthing at the conversation and situation at the time or what? i'm ready to be together all the time everyday even with disagreements. Reply to this Question
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (22 October 2009):
 What this means is that he's a bit immature. Him saying he'll just go home or he should have stayed home means that he's not willing or able to deal with things head on and looks for an easy way out. It shows he's not ready to be in a serious, adult relationship. What if you ran into a serious problem? Would he leave you and run home?
The comments about the future mean nothing...they're just empty words. Until you see these things before your eyes don't believe them.
I feel like you're much more mature than him and that somehow you're pulling this relationship more than he is. You need to figure out if you're happy with a man who doesn't yet know how to be a man. You really don't want to get into something serious with someone who has not matured as you have.
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