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anonymous
writes:i m female from india in early forties .married ,mother of twon grown up boy and girl,my problem is my sexual desires ,,what my husband never understand he is 14 yr older than me diabetic ,,he is loving and caring but not intrested in physical activity we live like brother sister .even they hug sometime we dont,,,,.what should i do,,,,,(,ones in a month we do but for verry short time )he is .very dry in bed.....help me out..... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2009): Hey Anonymous, it is a good thing you asked this question. Diabetes itself can affect the sexual functioning of a man. So can certain medicines used for treatment of Diabetes and High Blood Pressure. These may cause a decrease in the interest in sex. I suggest you and your husband discuss this problem with your husband's physician. He maybe able to help. Good Luck :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2009): Talk to him and try to put some sparks back into the sex life. you can get a female sex toy which may help, I find it does
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2009): Diabetes has a direct relationship with arousal. Pl look that up. Speak to your family doctor about it (after looking it up and discussing it with your husband). Doctors in India don't give this information because no one asks them.
You need to talk to him and you can prolong the 'once in the a month' moment by being more inventive.
If you have a marriage as old as yours did you try anything in the past? Did you guys talk about sex? Try talking to him now.. maybe he wants it to but its become boring and perhaps a medical problem is holding him back...
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reader, lovingshook  +, writes (21 October 2009):
Oh wow, I'm so sorry for you. This is a difficult problem isn't it?
Is it possible (if you would be interested) to go out and get your physical desires fufilled elsewhere?
I've heard of couples where one person was unable or just not interested in sex allow or even encourage thier partner to go get it somewhere else as long as they didn't fall in love while doing it.
Other than masterbation (and that can only take you so far) I don't know what in the world to tell you. You are still a human and have very natural needs and desires.
Maybe you feel you could discuss this with him.
best of luck to you.
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