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writes:My fiance is just coming back from working from home. Im in the last stages of pregnancy and we love each other very much. Hes usually really open about things and tells me what he is doing.He told me on the phone that he was getting a lift home from a work friend - he sounded very vague which is unlike him, usually says its Roger or whatever. He didnt so I asked him who it was and he wouldnt say, telling me it made no difference. He's right it doesnt but why would he not tell me? The only reason I thought of was because it was a girl, so what its only a lift right? So why is he not telling me if it is a boy or a girl or who it is? I admit that I may be a bit hormonal but surely he would rather calm things down rather than get things all out of proportion. Do you think he just didnt want to make me upset by telling me and didnt want to lie either hence all this?He's not called sinceThanks
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reader, Spiralvector +, writes (21 October 2009):
 We all sometimes make judgment calls that are wrong. I agree it is possible it was simply a ride from a female coworker that meant nothing, and he simply didn’t want to cause any trouble. If this is the case though, your asking about it should bring the simple truth. If there is nothing to hide, then why continue hiding it? Ideally he should have said on the phone right off if it was a woman. His continued evasiveness is making it an issue. So don’t ignore it, but come at him without fire and brimstone if you can :P
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 October 2009):
No, you're not hormonal. Something's wrong.
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reader, d e e p w i t h i n  +, writes (21 October 2009):
 hey hun, i think he may not of told you because it was a woman and he didnt want you thinking he was having an affair or that something was going on. it was probably some woman from work and he didnt want you to worry so he was just vague about it. it doesnt mean something is going on, he just didnt want you to think anything about it. yes, he should have been honest but sometimes, this is how guys are...vague. anyways i hope this helps, im sure theres nothing going on.
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reader, MsIndependent19 +, writes (21 October 2009):
 Sweety...
he is lying... been there seen that... he doesn't actually want to lie he is just not telling the truth... He is your fiance and you deserve to know what he is doing and who he is with so when you see him have a face to face like what the hell kind of thing?! you deserve to know and you are pregnant he shouldn't be stressing you out like this.
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