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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi,My new boyfriend broke up with me, he says, because he was laid off and needs to figure things out, and he's probably moving across country to NY. He's on a work visa, so if he doesn't get a job he'll get sent back to India? I'm not sure I think this is a good reason to break it up, but I did my best to be good natured about it and not act upset. Because I may relocate, too. He said if we had been dating longer, he would have asked me to come with him. I don't know if I believe him. Is this just a cop out? So after we broke it up, I waited exactly one week and sent him a short text message. He called me immediately and said he'd been wanting to call. Okay, so he's must trying to figure things out right now, he says. So we talk for a little while, and he says, you can call me anytime. So he wanted to call me? Is it possible he's still interested in me at all? He didn't say anything about wanting to see me, of course. I would really like to see him but since we're both leaving soon what would be the point? Was it a mistake to contact him?
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (21 October 2009):
 I think you should leave things as they are.
If he wanted to be with you 100% he would have asked you to go with him or carried on being with you despite the distance ( a lot of couples stick together even after relocation) so i would leave things until he gets in contact and makes the first move.
Good luck!
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