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How can I change myself so I'll forget about him?

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Question - (21 October 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 October 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, *sabella1987 writes:

Hi everybody. I used to post about my boyfriend before. And finally we broke up. But we still talking like friend. I think I still love him. Yeah! for sure I love him. I still worry about him. We talk at day time after we broke up, but I called him now (its at nigt like 7:30pm). He dont answer the call. I sent him text message. and asking him if he is in Strip club or whatever. Why he don't answer my phone call. But he don't answer my text too. I don't want to feel like this like I still worry about him and jealous he'll look for someone eles. I still want him in my life. but we're long distance.Please help. How can I change myself to forget about him.

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A female reader, sugar_sugar United States +, writes (21 October 2009):

sugar_sugar agony auntYou're not going to forget about him while he's still in your life. You're not together so you have no right to be checking up on where he is - eventually things like that will have an impact on your friendship with him and it's not unlikely that things will turn sour.

Eventually he will start looking for someone else.

Why did the relationship end? Is it worth another shot?

If yes, try. If no, maintain your distance from him or you just won't be able to get over it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2009):

I can feel your pain and your anguish.

If forget about him is what you want, you need to do the following:

1)Do not contact him anymore

2)Set your mind to say good bye to your love for him

3)Go to http://www.relationshipobit.com

4)Write an obituary to your relationship with him

After you've done this, you will feel so much better

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