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What should I do with this new fear that stems from my dream?

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Question - (21 October 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 October 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

The dream starts out with my crush/friend, R, playing Sorry with a friend in shop. Then I and his cousin /my best friend, Grace, started playing for him and the girl while they do work. He comes over and sits next to me, my crush. We were playing, talking, and laughing. Then unexpectedly R gets close to me to whisper something in my ear and I turn around just as he was near my face and we kissed. It was a few seconds then R jumps back and makes a gag noise near the floor and I pretend to do the same so he doesn’t think that I wanted it to happen or maybe liked it. He sits up and it’s an awkward silence then he runs back to his seat and looks away like he was embarrassed. I’m sitting in my seat getting a lecture from my friend Grace because she’s mad saying that he never did it before, no one liked him, and she’s totally shocked at my behavior. She was sticking up for her cousin like I did something wrong. Then I woke up from my dream crying, heartbroken, and my heart was racing. Now I’m afraid that he would do that! What should I do about this new fear? I like this guy but this dream hurt me!

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A female reader, Molliex  +, writes (23 October 2009):

Molliex agony auntWhat you need to do is remember your dream was just that a DREAM! If you think hes never kissed a girl before then you just take it really slowly and let him (and you) enjoy it! If he does do it just ask him if hes ok and dont make a big thing out of him doing it like you did in your dream!

And in the future dont let dreams hurt you because these kinda dreams dont come true the good ones do!

Good luck :)

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