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writes:I met this girl in the beginning of the year of school and I got to know her and began to like her. She had a boyfriend ,but they broke up because he was not being a boyfriend to her. We were texting and I mentioned how her friend had said we should go out and then she said she always says that and I said I am a nice guy. She thought that I was asking her out I said no but if she wanted to we could go out. She replied your a great guy and I wouldn't mind going out with you, it wouldn't be bad, but I need some time. What does she mean , should I just wait for her to decide?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2009): It means she thinks your a great guy. Not to be confused with i think you would make a good boyfriend. She may or may not go back with the ex. But either way. Your just a great guy. Good friend material. Bummer.
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (21 October 2009):
 It means she's probably still dealing with the breakup and has to sort out her feelings and feel normal again before she can consider going out with you or another guy. She didn't push you away, she was nice and basically told you she likes you as a person..............she most likely needs a friend right now, someone she can talk to, someone who will listen and be there for her. She was honest with you, she could've used you as a rebound or she could've been mean and said..."i don't think so, not a good time right now"..........she sounds nice and honest, just try to be there for her without being too pushy, nice girls like guys who listen to their problems and she will appreciate it later on. If you can start off as friends first, you'll see, she'll fall for you...........with time:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2009): Ok, she already said she would go out with you. What she doesn't know is whether you really like her. State that you like her, and ask her out. Just make sure to be normal (not contrived), which you are.
Have fun!
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reader, angelsrock18 +, writes (21 October 2009):
 maybe she need's to get over the other guy and get over what happened, it happens alot tooo girlsss.
give her some time but don't give up on her.
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reader, thecolortaylor +, writes (21 October 2009):
 You said you met at the begining of school right??
She just broke up with her now ex, just give her a few days. if she wants you she will come to you. But if she doesn't want to go-out with ya right now, don't beat yourself up, you can still be friends, and maybe things can work out later.
Hope everything works outt!
taylor3
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