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writes:Hey everyone, Im a bisexual boy and I currently going outwith another boy who is gay. We have had anal a couple of times but just before he cums he always pulls out, I always tell him to finsh inside me but he never does. How can I convnce him to do it. And can you feel when they cum and is it good? Reply to this Question
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reader, bi_KID_bi +, writes (1 June 2009):
bi_KID_bi is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks StewartGriffin89. Seems you have had unprotected sex can you feel when he orgasms and the cum, that's all I want to know.
Thanks for your help.
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reader, StewartGriffin89  +, writes (31 May 2009):
Hey bud,
I lost my virginity when I was 16, I'm currently twenty and have only had one real relationship which I've been in for over 2 years. Getting on your level, I know why you would want him to do it. I'd be a hypocrite if I told you it's bad because my first time was unprotected but I was lucky because he was "straight". I even have unprotected sex with my boyfriend, but I feel as though that's ok because we've been together for a while and I know him well enough to trust him. Some people use protection even if they've been together that long. It all depends on how you feel.
I'm guessing that you're pretty young so here's my advice: if you insist on having unprotected sex, continue to let him pull out. Trust me dude, better safe than sorry. You'll have a lot more boyfriends and partner's I'm sure. Don't screw your life up and get an STD over someone who probably isn't worth it. Actually, getting an STD isn't worth anyone or anything.
In a nutshell: use condoms or continue to let him pull out. Hope that helps.
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reader, bi_KID_bi +, writes (30 May 2009):
bi_KID_bi is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks so far. Me and my bf went to an STD clinic about a week and a half ago. We are both not infected so do I still have to wear a condom. And can you feel the cum, the throbing or both.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2009): I think you should talk to him about why he stops when it comes to the best part
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2009): I don't think you could 'make' your boyfriend do it if he's uncomfortable with it. If he doesn't want to then you need to respect his wishes. He's also respecting you as not wearing a condom will increase your chances of infections and STD's. So be safe and wear a condom!
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reader, Olichenko  +, writes (30 May 2009):
I strongly back what NOmoreBS says.
Don't do it.
But if you do, for the love of God, wear a condom.
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reader, NOmoreBS +, writes (30 May 2009):
Normally I avoid responding to questions from minors, because I strongly discourage kids from having sex at your age. However, for your physical and mental health I will try to respond as candidly and forcefully as I can without trying to hurt your feelings.If your age is indeed between 13-15, you need to be very careful. I know it's hard to hear right now, but sex will be around for the rest of your life. It isn't going to disappear. However, the choices you make today can make tomorrow so bad that you'll wish you could.1. Please, please, please wear a condom and have your bf do the same. Whether you either have previous sexual partners or not, they can save your life and prevent a ton of really nasty diseases. At your ages, it is statistically almost certain that you will have other partners and will not be together monogamously forever. With multiple partners comes added risks, with risks come consequences. Wear a condom!2. Anal sex increases the risk of transmitting an STD, because even in well lubricated and gentle sex, small tears can occur in the rectal lining thus making a direct infection site to the bloodstream. Wear a condom!3. Even with the pull-outs, pre-cum can transmit STDs. Wear a condom!4. Does it feel better? It depends. For some yes, for some no. But save that for the one you plan to be with for a long time in a committed and safe relationship. It will mean more and feel even better to let him be the first to take that extra step. AND, you won't have HIV, Hepatitis, genital herpes, or rectal and genital warts to complicate things. Wear a condom!5. Finally, you can order tons of really great condoms made for anal sex. Plus, what you'll feel most is the throbbing not the ejaculate. You'll still feel that with the condom. They come in all colors, sizes and thicknesses. After using them for a while, you'll get used to it. Get flavored ones. Get glow-in-the dark ones. But for the love of god, ....you guessed it...WEAR A DAMNED CONDOM YOUNG MAN!
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