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writes:So heres my issue. im a 14 year old girl (yes i know i put the wrong age) and i am wayyyy too skinny. im about 5'6 and weigh 100 lbs. i HATE my body. i have only a little bit of curves and my rib sticks out a bit and i have skinny legs no chest no behind no NOTHING! right now my concern is only gaining weight this summer so when i go into highschool im new and improved. i dont want to drink ensure because i bought it once already and its too expensive i mean seriously in order to gain weight you have to drink 3 of those a day and 6 of them cost 10 dollars!!! i want to buy a powder to pour into like water or milk or something but i dont want the ones that give you muscles i just want to gain weight NOT MUSCLES. is there anything that makes my butt stomach legs and arms thicker? thats pretty much my whole body but yeah lol please help i really can use some advice. im planning to go to the doctor and ask her what i should do but im sure shes going to say your the right weight when im NOT! please please PLEASE help! any powders or vitamins that arent expensive and really work in helping gain weight? thanks.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (30 May 2009):
 I was the only redhead in my family (my hair has gotten darker) too... it's a recessive gene. :) I have brown eyes though, which is strange... not many people have that combination
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reader, SirenaBlusera +, writes (30 May 2009):
I would see a doctor before you take this up, but you might want to think about weightlifting. I have read a series of articles with various views about the pros and cons of teenagers lifting weights, but most high schools offer it as an elective.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2009): You are only 14, you will blossom as you get into your later teens and early 20's. Be happy with what you have (that includes your hair too!)
As woman, we are so critical of ourselves. It seems like no matter how much we have going for us, we are never happy. I think it comes from within. We have to love ourselves unconditionally! We can't expect it from others if we can't give it to ourselves! Ya Know?
My daughter is very thin. When she was your age she was a stick, and hated her body. She is now in her 30's. She is 5'4" and weighs 98 lbs. She has curves where she should, and muscle where she should. She also has long strawberry blonde hair which she hated as a child, she was the only redhead in the family, and she has big green eyes. She is beautiful! And now I think she knows it!
Give yourself time to blossom!
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