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writes:hi, i recently told a guy i fancied him by email then then after a few days we had a convo on msn that went like this:(23:02) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: heya (23:02) -: hi (23:03) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: ta 4 the email (23:04) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: u going 2 the quiz thingy 2morrow? (23:05) -: erm i believe so. is it at the church? (23:05) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: ja (23:05) -: in that case indeed i am going, are you? (23:06) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: i am indeedpeniis (23:06) -: lol yes please are you gonna be on the youth team that tom set up? (23:06) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: yer (23:07) -: haha, we will be team mates (23:07) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: i bet u wanna be more than mates though (23:08) -: omg shut up i feel stupid. i just wanted to tell you how i felt (23:09) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: thats kool though, it takes some balls to tell people these things, so i respect u 4 that (23:10) -: lol thanks i guess. (23:10) {xW!LL.EV!Ex} has changed his/her personal message to "is loving the half term so far" (23:11) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: well if it makes u feel any better i wouldn't say no if i was single (23:11) -: lol seriously? yeah that does make me feel better (23:12) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: well come on ure up 4 anything and wud like try and shag me all the time so yeau can't say no 2 that (23:12) -: lol ill try and take that as a compliment (23:13) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: cool (23:13) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: but don't tell people caus i'm not single so they'll just think ure some sort of nut case (23:14) -: lol dont worry i wont (23:14) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: anyways g2g now c ya 2morrow xxx (23:14) -: cya xxx (23:15) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: penis (23:15) -: lol yes please especially if its yours x (23:15) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: ooo yea only the best 4 u c ya x (23:16) -: bye x (23:16) {xW!LL.EV!Ex} is now Offline (23:21) {xW!LL.EV!Ex} is now Online (23:21) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: i was just lookin at ure wedding photosand u look pretty hot in that dress i have 2 say (23:22) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: i wud shag u if u war that (23:22) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: just thought i'd tell u (23:23) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: so u do have some hope with me (23:23) -: lol thanks, well whenever your next single, do let me know x (23:23) {xW!LL.EV!Ex} is now Offline i really like him, like so so so much and im sort of stuck now cos i dont know what to do :S advice? x
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (4 June 2009):
 I think it's time to close this thread; as the poster is not receiving the answers she seems to be looking for, and things seem to be getting a little testy. There's no need for that. Good luck on your quest!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): I don't think many of us are interested in giving you advice on how to be a decietful, unrespectable little girl.
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reader, BethBabes +, writes (3 June 2009):
BethBabes is verified as being by the original poster of the question well, i dont need to know about sexual poses anymore, i took the photos and sent him them so i need to know how to kiss properly now cos we're gonna kiss on fiday at lunchtime.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): He is a right lad, and sounds like he is no good, i mean he doesn't really like you atall honey! He just wants to bed you that's it, just cold emotionless hard bonking.
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reader, pebble +, writes (3 June 2009):
 Britt is right. Things have a habit of coming back to haunt you in the future. Send him sexy pictures if you want but we're not going to advise you on poses here.Be aware he might brag and show them to his friends or put them on the Internet, then you're screwed. Or maybe his girlfriend will find them and show you a close up of her fists. If his girlfriend finds them they WILL get out for everyone to see because she'll cause a fuss. (Lol, do you still question how you will get a repuation from all this?)But of course, he's so lovely that he wouldn't possibly do that to you... Wow, I don't think I was ever this immature and dumb.And please, don't be posting a question in three months time asking whether you might be pregnant.Good luck to ya.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): Girl, have some self respect for yourself...If you don't respect yourself, no one else will!
You can do what you want but you will regret it in the future!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): LOL Armywife, I admire your persistence! But give it up, friend. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): Well i certainly hope you know how you're making his gf feel, and i also hope what comes around goes around so that you can know that impact of what you're doing to people.
He's a coward. He can't even break up with his gf without finding some desperate girl to make an excuse for him.
Wow.
Good luck to both of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): In every post i've made, I've told you this same thing: That there is nothing you can do because he is in a relationship and you have to RESPECT that. Yes.. if you try to do anything to ruin it, then of course you'll get a reputation! We've been giving you the same advice, you're not listening to a word of it. It is just not right, not proper, not respectable, and Oh i'll say it because no one else will.. SLUTTY to act that way. Sometimes, you just can't have what you want right then and there. That's life!
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reader, BethBabes +, writes (3 June 2009):
BethBabes is verified as being by the original poster of the questionlook fair enough if you think that but i really dont agree, he's lovely, he really is.anway i've made a deal with him now, im taking some revealling photos of myself and he's going to kiss me.so i need advice on how to kiss, it will be my first, it wont be tongues though, just a snog.and i need some ideas for sexy poses for the photos too.plus he said if i do this for him he would shag me when he's next single and a load of other stuff too :D
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reader, pebble +, writes (2 June 2009):
Sweetheart, you just said yourself that you're up for anything. You're asking us how you can "shag" him or get him to break up with his girlfriend.
"but i am fair game for anything.
is there not anything i can do to get them to split up quicker or just shag him or anything?"
Do you think that sounds decent? What would your mother say if she knew you were thinking this way?
I'm 19, not particularly old or past it but even to me, a 14 year old saying these things is just disgusting. He said in your msn conversation that he thinks you're up for anything so you already to seem to have a reputation.
I just think you could benefit from learning some self respect. A woman who respects herself would not allow a man to talk to her that way, because she should know she's worth more than "i wud shag u if u war that". That's not romance or flirting. That's the furthest from romance you can get. Romance is taking you out, spoiling you and telling you're beautiful, not telling you you're up for anything over the internet.
And he's doing it all with a girlfriend. Is that what you want for a boyfriend? Because if he's doing it to her, he'll do it to you too. Don't fool yourself thinking you'll be the one to change him. You won't.
I'm sorry but you should stop thinking how to split these people up and start concentrating on figuring out why your standards are so low.
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reader, BethBabes +, writes (2 June 2009):
BethBabes is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwhat so just because i really really really like this one guy, im gonna get a reputation!?
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reader, pebble +, writes (2 June 2009):
Well carry on acting this way and it won't be long before you do.
:D
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reader, BethBabes +, writes (2 June 2009):
BethBabes is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni dont actually have that much of a reputation acttually pebble.
and q1605, i cant cut the brake lines in her car, im 14, she's 15, we dont drive.
though i would shag him, not sure about pictures tho lol. he's not really the type to cheat tho so i might have to seduce him a bit more me thinks ;)
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reader, pebble +, writes (2 June 2009):
Well it's no wonder you have the reputation you do then is it?
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reader, BethBabes +, writes (2 June 2009):
BethBabes is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut i am fair game for anything.
is there not anything i can do to get them to split up quicker or just shag him or anything?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2009): Ok.. that's the same thing. You can't do anything, ok? He's in a realtionship.
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reader, BethBabes +, writes (30 May 2009):
BethBabes is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe didnt say he'd let me know when he was single, i told him to let me know when he's next single.
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reader, pebble +, writes (30 May 2009):
It's very sad if that's what you think flirting is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2009): ROFL pebble. I love how you signed "penis"
Anyway.. i already told.. I'm still not sure what your debate is though, because he made it very clear.. he has a girlfriend and he will let you know once he is single again.
So all you can do is wait (although i don't think you should) for hm to breakup with her. And stay away from them while they are together.. this is where you start teaching yourself to be respectful of other peoples' relationships so you don't grow up being "the other girl."
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reader, BethBabes +, writes (30 May 2009):
BethBabes is verified as being by the original poster of the questionpebble, no he's not that sort of person. he's just a bit of a flirt.
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reader, BethBabes +, writes (30 May 2009):
BethBabes is verified as being by the original poster of the questionright, sorry i didnt think it was confusing. this is the conversation we had after i sent him an email telling him i fancied him. sorry if its hard to understand, i copied and pasted it from my msn chat log.
so he is the one with the girlfriend and anything he said will be beside {W!LL.EV!E}: and anything i say is beside -:
the penis thing is because that word makes me go all giggly and stuff so he says it to annoy me, its just a thing we do.
the wedding thing is the photos from my brothers wedding where i was bridesmaid.
i just wanted advice on what you think, like what should i do now? thanks, i hope its easier to understand now x
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reader, BethBabes +, writes (30 May 2009):
BethBabes is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe doesnt randomly say penis, i dont like that word and it makes me go all giggly and stuff so he always says it to annoy me. its just something we do.
and sorry if it was confusing, i thought it made sense, sorry. right the jist is that he has a girlfriend but i really fancy him so i told him in an email and this is the conversation we had afterwards. the things he says is the stuff beside {W!LL.EV!E} and the stuff i said is beside -: and usually just below what he said. sorry it is a bit confusing, its just i copied and pasted it from my saved chat logs on msn.
oh and the wedding thing, i was at my brothers wedding as a bridesmaid.
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reader, pebble +, writes (30 May 2009):
Is this what you call romance?
"(23:22) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: i wud shag u if u war that"
Maybe you guys should learn some class before you go anywhere near him.
A boy that tells you you're up for anything has no respect for you. Are you proud of that? People think you're fair game for anything...
I'm sorry but if this is real, it's the worst, most tacky, gross thing I've heard in a long time. Neither of you should be proud of yourselves.
Have fun with him though, because it's not like he's going to use you for sex, maybe give you an STI, get you pregnant or do the same to you as he's doing to his girlfriend is it? He's obviously not that kind of person.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2009): I think she was at a wedding.. wearing a regular dress. I don't know what you see in a guy that ramdomly spits out the word "penis"Be careful. If you're ever with him, he could be saying this to some other girl. How would you feel if you were with him and heard him say "As soon as i'm single i'll let you know"to some chic. eghck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2009): q1605: I know! I was feeling the same impulses!
Well, it took a while to crack the code...but There're still somethings I don't understand. Who was wearing the wedding dress, Him??? I'm not sure who is single and who's not! And "penis"????
And what is the question? I may have cracked the code somewhat, but I still don't have a clue!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2009): wtf.. penis?
What's your debate over? You can't do anything until he's single.
In fact, I would lay low for a bit until he is single and pay his gf some respect.
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