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writes:Why is my life this way?Hi! I must admit I have never really been lucky in love although I am quite good looking with a decent enough figure. To start with I didn't want to lose my virginity until I was 30 and then the guy turned out to be a wrong 'un. Then, I never got together with another guy until I was nearly 40 and now feel very left out of things and able to feel "normal" around him as I am quite inexperienced. Why do you think my life has been like this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your responses - they have all been quite helpful.
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reader, Original shiraz! +, writes (31 May 2009):
Some believe life is planned out for you, I disagree with that, life is what you make it. You're in control, don't blame yourself for what could be or what hasn't been and the reasons why, the more you question the more you miss out on. You're not to blame, its simply how this fell. You can always alter it though, if you want a change go ahead and make it happen who says you can choose, were all different and the way we live our lives shapes the person we are. It's full of choices and 'the right way of living' but who really knows what's best? All we know is what's best for us so maybe things fell this way for a reason that is yet to be found, they say all things have a reason.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2009): As you said, you didn't want to lose your virginity until 30+, so things have mainly turned out due to your choices, not just with sex but with many other aspects aswell. Don't beat yourself up about it. When the right guy comes along, he won't care if you are experienced or not. If you are unhappy with how things are in your life then you need to figure out how to change this and have a more positive attitude and what you have achieved so far.
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