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writes:I have a friend who lives long distance. When he moves to my town he always breaks up with his girlfriend to date me, but when he moves home he gets back together with her. He hasn't told me about her but he is from a very small town so I hear about everything. I don't know him that well and we have only gone out three times, but I really like him and want to be in a relationship with him. Should I wait for him to move here permanently or say something now? Also why wouldn't he tell me about his girlfriend? And why does he keep going back and forth between us? Does he just date her because it is convenient or does he really like her even though he breaks up with her a lot? I can't tell if he just doesn't know me good enough to make a decision or if he really wants his girlfriend. Should I ask him about her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2009): You want an honest answer? He wants neither of you, he just loves the attention and the thrill of playing two girls off against each other. He loves the fact that when he comes visits your town he has someone to hook up with there and when he goes back home he has someone there too. So he never goes without!
Sweety, hes a guy, they dont have emotions outside their penis until they mature, and some guys never mature!
If i were you i'd tell him where to get off and also id let the girl know what hes been up to with you as well!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2009): If you really like him, now is the perfect time to step back and realize how this relationship will effect you - before you can get seriously emotionally damgaged.If this man can do this to both you and his girlfriend, then trust me when I say history will repeat itself. No, technically it isn't "cheating" but if he decides to be with you then he will find a way to technically "not cheat" with someone else. While it is true that men can change, this really only pertains to few men, and even less when they are young.When you like someone, it feels like this is the only right person for you, but this really isn't true. It's hormones at their finest.I wish you luck on whatever you decide, just remember - when you find the guy for you, make sure he really is yours.
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