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Am I not a virgin? And do yout hink he didn't like giving me oral sex?

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Question - (30 May 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 May 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, *exy-mama writes:

Alright so my boyfriend and I always do lots of foreplay, but I wanted to wait until marriage before actually going all the way and having sex. Well my boyfriend got a little carried away and started to stick it in me. I got upset and he stopped, but does that technically make me not a virgin anymore?

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I was dating this guy and I loved giving him blowjobs. Once he gave me one back in the 69 position which was amazing, but he didn't do it again. We only did it twice though after he gave me one, and both times it was in my car instead of his bedroom. Then he moved so that is why we haven't done anything since. Do you think he didn't like giving oral sex? I am kind of worried that he didn't like it because he only did it once. Both times after I went down on him, but he didn't return the favor. I don't mind, but am just worried that he did like it? I do shave and have good hygiene, but I am still self conscious and worry that he didn't like it. I haven't talked to him in two months so I would feel stupid asking, and I haven't done it with anyone else. Do you think he just didn't like oral, or do you think he did and I am just worrying to much?

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (30 May 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntYou're not a virgin anymore. X

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2009):

its unlikely your breakup didnt have anything to do with the oral sex. its most possible that he doesnt share the same "no sex before marriage" morals you do, afterall you did say he gets carried away. if oral sex isnt his kind of thing then he probably felt he wasnt getting anything out of the relasionship, and im sure he had no plans of marrying you so he probably got a better offer elswhere, and took it, but just didnt want to hert your feelings

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2009):

Let me get this, you want to stay a good Chrisitain girl till marriage but had SEX before marriage (your not a virgin) and you haven't seen this guy for two months?

If you can't talk to your boyfriend abouut sexual things then you shouldn't be in a relationship.

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