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51-59,
*atalie66
writes:hi i was married for 10 years when i embarked on a affair with a old flame i left my husband to live with this man who divorced his wife been with him 3 years but i have been leading a double life with my husband hence i have a boy of 8 i go out on family days out my partner isnt happy wants me to commit to him my husband just got all this legacy wants me to try again and move away me and my partner is having a week break which im staying at my husbands dont know what to do for the best i know i shouldnt plan these days out but i think i have so many guilt feelings that i cant help myself
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2009): Ok I think you need to think.. yeswhat you are doing is wrong... I am not condemming you because I have been throug something similar.... You need to decide who you want to be with and STICK TO THAT!!! it is wrong of you to be seeing your husband/exhusband if you are with this other man.... What are you showing your son? I am sure he is really confused about why mommy is still seeing daddy but also the other man... that can mess him up and mess up his idea of what a RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE is... I have had long talks with my now 11year old daugher about my situation (without going into alot of detail with her) Just so I know she understands what I did and why.... think about your kid first... good luck with whatever you choose....
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