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female
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41-50,
*3 Angel
writes:Hi everyone.A bit of an update on the "Angry, hurt and confused..." story I posted earlier this week.The guy had initiated contact via facebook the other night when we were both online, but we spoke briefly and about day to day stuff.I miss the way we used to flirt and get all suggestive with each other, but most of all the friendship and trust, which was starting to develop.I still don't know if he was really into me; I still have my doubts as I mentioned to him previously that I can't get him out of my head and think about him too much. His response was yeah right! I responded that it's true and why is he doubting me?! His reply was that he's doubting me as much as I'm doubting him. Jees, I don't know. At the time I presume I just wanted him to blurt out that he's into me, but realise it takes a lot for a guy to admit, when he doesn't know how the woman feels, no matter what suble hints she gives. I'm being such a scardy cat at the moment and want so desperately to contact this guy, other than "hi how are you" type of stuff, but I don't know how I should broach the subject with him...we only have contact via e-mail at the moment as his mobile is not working. He gave me his home number, but I don't realy want to phone him as I know his daughter is with him this weekend and it's not always possible for him to chat.How do I tell him in an e-mail that I can't stop thinking about him? That I know we live hundreds of miles apart and can't see each other right now and possibly not very soon either (money is very tight) and I miss him. I have no idea how he feels and by blurting this out, I am making myself look like a love crazed teenager!I don't have much experience with relationships as I play it too safe and rather loose them than show my true feelings to them. But this time I don't want to give up on this, even if it is a long distance thing.Please give me advise on how to broach the subject with him and not make him run away!
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