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writes:I'm am 15 years old, i have not done any drugs for 5 months. A couple days ago, my friends had some weed, so i smoked it. A friend(19) I haven't talked to for a long time called me, and I told him I was high. He was like really, well want me to come over, I said yes. I walked home and he come over, we had sex. After we were done, he asked if I was on the shot, pill, patch... I started freakin out, I said no. I started crying, he said everything will be ok, and stayed with me for an hour, then kissed me and said everything will be ok, and left. I'm scared. He was my second person I have ever had sex with. I don't know what to do, should I tell my mom, or keep it a secret until I find out some stuff? Help Please.?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2009): Tell ur mom and take the morning after pill
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2009): 1. Tell your mom or an adult you trust2. Get a pregnancy test3. If it's negative, speak to your GP and get yourself on the pill.4. If it's positive, well, you have to decide from there.High or not, you need to think about these things and be careful next time. Your friend called you over when he knew you were high. At his age, he should have known better than to take advantage of you. You are under the legal age of consent and he had sex with you anyway. But still, you are responsible for smoking in the first place and going to his house. Wait until you are a little older before you go round to boys houses, alone and stoned!
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reader, Tarianna  +, writes (31 May 2009):
 ok....first of all...you're only worried that you might be pregnant...well yea its a big deal...but why are you on drugs??!!!...come on girl..get off it that thing is bad or your health..can kill you...please dont do it again....now with your other issues...I suggestyou tell your mom what you did...first telll you have something really important to talk to her about....and pray she doesn't freak out...if your mom isn't someone you can talk to go to another adult you are confident you can trust who wont spill it to anyone apart from your mom...talk to them and maybe the can talk to your mom abt your very sticky situation...and again...I dont know if you're addicted to drugs as yet but I assume you are...please get some help for that too and while at it tell your mom avout those little skeletons too. Good luck
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reader, Gabbrielle1221  +, writes (31 May 2009):
 Hello first of all, without sounding too serious, the situation for both of you is very sentimental. Firstly because you have committed an act of which is illegal both ways and secondly because you had not protection. I do advise if you haven't done already to get yourself checked out for any diseases and also to check if your pregnant. If you are please tell your mum, she will offer you loads of support that is what they are there for and no matter how hard it is as first to admit it, it will be half the problem when it is admitted and solved. In regards to your question, it is up to you whether you tell your mum. Personally, i know i dont have the best connection with my mum but i find alternatives a.k.a talkin with a school nurse or even a doctor. Remember a doctor has no rights telling your mum any of your business if you are a "gillick competent child". Therefore you can ask for an abortion. However i do insist oyu get help with the drugs situation. That can easily turn into an addiction and end up in the worse situation. I do feel that the doctor would mention something about the drugs to parents and possibly to police because she is under strict contract law to do so especially if the drugs are illegal.In conclusion looking at your scenario, I do ask you to firstly check yourself up on any infections, second of all any signs of pregnancy, thirdly if you have that relationship with your mum please do tell her, "remember a problem shared is a problem halved!" fourth get some help with those drugs please. They will take over your life. Thank you very much... Gabbrielle1221
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reader, amber_schram +, writes (30 May 2009):
 im sry ta hear that! if ur mom is someone thatll freak out nd u cnt tlk ta her bout sex or don wanna then id get prego test or go ta doc c if u have a std or prego or whateverr nd if so id tlk ta her hope this helps a bit
xo-amber
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