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writes:Hi - I recently asked a question about how to slip hints to the guy I like without it being outright flirting...if anyone has anymore ideas please do tell!But when I saw this guy last (we see each other at a sports club) a few times after I played well he would give me a high-five and once he clapped me on the back. Does that mean anything or is he just being supportive? I guess we are friends, but could there be more in it? He teases me a bit - I've heard boys sometimes do that when they fancy you, but what other signs might HE give to show that he might have feelings for me?The other thing is that he is 19, I'm 16, and I can't help thinking that if we had been in school together (as much as I dislike catogarising people) we would be in different friendship groups. I really like him though, but even if he didn't like me back I would still value him as a friend.So...ideas on what guys do to show they fancy gals??
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2009): Hey - I posted the question and thankyou for your answers.Ted-ster: well...I do understand what you're saying about this and I wouldn't want to get him into any trouble. I'll leave it for at least a few more years and for now stay friends. I won't try anything to put him in a tricky situation either.Female anon.: thankyou for your advice and although I'll wait until I'm older for this guy, I'll take your advice into account incase I find that I like a guy who is more my age.Thanks again for both your answers. Thankyou for being honest too xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2009): heyy.
i havee the exact samee problem except he is my age.
i really want to find out.
my friends always tell me that youu should just tell them or spend more timee with them.
i havent taken this info because i am to scared, but if you are confident youu should just go up to him and tell him how you feel.
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reader, Ted-ster  +, writes (10 May 2009):
You're a little too young for him now. There's a difference between 16 (girl) and 19 (man). Find a guy 16 or 17. That's not what you want to hear, but that's good advice. When you're 19, it might not be as a big an issue as it is now, but you may certainly enjoy your friendship now. It sounds good -- leave it alone. If it blossoms into something more over time, all the better. I also have more respect for this guy for not moving in on you so fast, becuase he probably does know you like him, but, like me, he thinks you're just a little too young (... can you say jail bait?) for him now.
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