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When and why do guys get erections?

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Question - (10 May 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 19 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

okay. i really dont understand this erection buisness that well.i know that guys say they have one when they see a girl they fancy and she does something sexy.

but do some gusy just have random one's?or just have one when they see a person they fancy but she doesn't do something sexy?

cause here's what happened; i met up with my m8 in the park.and her boyfriend was with her. and like my friend shouted like after a while 'hahaaa, look ...'s had an erection!' and he went bright red.and it was true.you could tell blatently. but tbh neither one of us was doing anything sexy and we weren't talking about sex or anything. so why did he have on e then?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2009):

Yes guys mostly get erections when they are with someone they love, and could be so to someone who does not mean anything to them. But the first choice is 100% true and common with all guys. They get much more pleasure out when they're with someone they love.

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (10 May 2009):

LazyGuy agony auntWhen and why do you get erect nipples. Roughly the same for men. Yes, it may happen because of a girl and it may happen because some hormones play up

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2009):

He's a young guy, it happens all the time. It happens in the middle of class, on the bus, even talking to people doing absolutley nothing "sexy".

All it takes is one tiny sexual thought at that age and we're hard. Even trying to think of something else can make it worse. Hell, i'm 20, and a change in wind direction could get me up!

His girlfriends won't be complaining, I promise you that. Just don't tease him about what happened, ok?

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A male reader, Harry Castle United Kingdom +, writes (10 May 2009):

Harry Castle agony auntAn erection starts in the mind, so yes - YOU don't have to be doing anything sexy, he just has to be thinking sexy things about you!

As has been said already, he obviously is interested in one of you, so be flattered. It doesn't have to be a pervy thing.

Also, he is young, bless him, and is likely to get hard at the slightest thing: aahhh, those were the days........(sob).

Harry.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

origanal poster here:

so a guy could just get one when they see someone they like.that person doesnt have to be doing something sexy ??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2009):

Its just a random thing, or maybe the guy likes you or the other girl.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2009):

guys get them at random some of the time, but also over people they like.

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