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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend who went on for an arranged marriage after 3 and a half years of our relationship is now trying to call me . He started doing this after a week of his marriage. What is his problem in life? I do not respond to his calls or texts. Why is he calling me when he is supposed to be honeymooning. He married this girl saying that I am not wife material. May be he thinks I am mistress material. Does this happen? I feel like shit.I had asked a question on my relationship before.http://www.dearcupid.org/question/going-through-hell.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi everybody,I really appreciate your advice and support. It really boosted my trust in myself.Feeling much better now. This guy again sent a mail saying that he is in a bad condition etc. But I actually do not care. Its his choice, right?Thank you so much...You guys are great!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2009): he does not respect you at all, you may not be wife material but he wants you as screwing material. what a piece of shit. he deserves nothing but contempt from you. yes, block him and no contact with him. you deserve much more than what he was offering and i hope you move on to someone more deserving of you.
show him that you may not be "wife material" but also you may not be "mistress material". you are in fact "love material".
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (10 May 2009):
 You are doing the right thing, do not take his call and block him ( if you can). He just isn't worthy. He made his bed, now he can lie in it and YOU can move on. You have to realize that you DO deserve better.
Be glad you weren't wife material in his book. His book stinks. I feel sorry for is bride, she got stuck with a looser.
*chin up girl*
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2009): What a troll.... Just think that could have been you sitting there saying hun who are you talking to? Omg poor girl. I am soo happy for you that its not you... If I were you I would be strutten it like It was "stayin alive" and you were john travolta.Feel like shit... maybe, so feel better and tell him where to go, how to get there and after he arrives write it down lick it, put a stamp on it and mail it to someone who gives a crap.Your in the green girl... you just won the lotto and have not let the shock sink in... once it does you will realize how rich you are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2009): yes maybe he thinks you are mistress material, i can understand how that would make you feel.
he made his choice let him live it dear. You are marriage material!
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