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writes:Hi, i'm 17 yrs old i live in california anyways lets get to the point! i met this guy online he's 19yrs old, he lives in Florida but studies in virginia anyway like i was saying i met him online and he is really sweet and everything so when he first asked me to be his gf i was reluctant because i have done "relationships" like that and well it didnt work out but i said ok after a while of being his gf he said i love you and i didnt say it back but he was ok with that so anyways after some time i said i love you i did mean it but the distance is killing me it sucks well so he thinks it will work out and that someday we will be together and i want to believe it but it idk so My question is Do u think relationships like that work out? any hope for me?(sorry for the long explanation)
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reader, Legioness  +, writes (10 May 2009):
 Have you actually met the guy in person? If you haven't I suggest you do, if you want there to be a relationship then it's very important that you do see eachother regularly. As for long distance relationships working, well, they haven't really worked out for me, I had one for a year and a half, and another for 5 months, and i'm never ever going to do another ldr again! It was far too hard for me,. But on the otherhand I know of alot of people where is has worked, one guy I speak to online moved from Australia to Ireland to be with his girlfriend. And a few others have moved across the UK to be with their partners, some even have kids now.. So, yes in some cases they do work out :) x Becky x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2009): you need to meet him to see if the chemistry is there, what happens if you meet and you are not compatible? you would have wasted so much time, but then again.. you can keep talking to eachother and build up a "bond" or emotional attatchment via phone/msn, generaly you need to do this for more then 6 months , then meet. and you will notice how intense and crazy it is when you first meet, its a wonderfull and best feeling! my advice give it a try and think positive!goodluck!
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reader, just-another-concerned-girl +, writes (10 May 2009):
just-another-concerned-girl is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks, i dont know when that will happen but i hope soon
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2009): I think you should go meet him as soon as you can and when you meet him take some of your friends with you so if something happens you have them.
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