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writes:i know the answer to this but i would just like to hear what any of you guys think. i broke up with someone just over a month ago, we were together for 6 months. i know this is a short time but i really fell for him and i assumed the feeling as mutual until he ended it. i never wanted a bf, he made me into his gf and practically moved in so his reasons were riduculas for breaking up things like i'm too angry, i dont like sport!. i know there is no one else involved to as he's not that sort of guy. after we split we continued as normal for about month and slowly its disintergrated into no contact and not even friends. we'll never bump into each other so i admit i have become text email crazy and thats been like a rollercoaster doing what he wanted me to be nice but then i would be and he would still be distant, them the text have turned nasty but he always responds. i know i have made things ten times worse by being up and down but this is beacuse of trying to do what he wanted and his false promises. i dont think he'll ever forgive me for being so cruel after we broke up but i only acted like this because i was devestated he has said we will never be friends or anything and i am finding it very difficult to know that i will never see him again very difficult. i'm off on holiday tomorrow and all i can think about is him i cannot stop its been weeks now and i have cried so much. i dont actually know what i'm asking because i know these things take time and i m going out keeping busy but my head is constantly filled with him, i think i'm going crazy! so i guess i just want someone a man to tell me that yeah he does maybe occasionally think about me and that he may even contact me if i leave him alone.
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reader, Olivia(Y). +, writes (10 May 2009):
 I'm really sorry but it doesn't sound like that relationship will work. But it doesn't mean you won't find that perfect somebody.
Cut all contact off with this guy. I know its hard but you have to, to move on with your life. Cry as much as you like to get it all out of your system.
Your going on holiday tomorrow you lucky thing! Go and enjoy yourself, be confident and make yourself look drop dead gorgeous and you might catch someones eye.
Enjoy life and have fun. When your not looking that somebody will come along just you wait! :)
Good luck and enjoy your holiday!
Livia
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reader, hutchi +, writes (10 May 2009):
hey breaking up is hard especially when its not what u want. and yeah time is a healer and a holiday is what u need to just sit and reflect if u think about things u will see that right now u need to build up ur self esteem be strong men hate emotional woman , crying and texting all the time. If you just go away try have a nice time (dont text him at all) try give it 30 days with no contact and then out of the blue if u still want to that is drop him a text asking how things are. if he really wants to be back with u he will be in touch. have a lovely holiday and remember no one can help u more than u can help yourself. It is good to talk and your mates will help u no matter how much u go on about it trust me i know . be strong ok
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