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*epressedOne
writes:Okay, this is embarrassing and long, so please bear with me. My last period started on March 29. On April 11, I had sex with my ex. We did it for about ten minutes without a condom, but then I came to my senses and made him put on one. However, he didn't ejaculate. Then on April 18, I had sex with another guy. We used a condom the whole time. In fact, I made sure his penis didn't get anywhere near me without a condom. Condom was worn and didn't break. On May 6 I took a pregnancy test and it was positive. The doctor did an ultrasound to make sure it was a new pregnancy and not from a pregnancy that had ended eight weeks prior. She concluded I was 5 1/2 weeks pregnant (based on last period) and that I had conceived about 3 1/2 weeks ago, which is right when I had sex with my ex.I'm trying to get opinions on if the second guy could possibly be the father, even though a condom was used - there was no rubbing or anything without one - and the doc is saying I ovulated before that. Or is it more likely my ex through precum? Note: My previous pregnancy was for this same ex and I got pregnant pretty much immediately after we became sexual with each other and likely through precum (as he never ejaculated in me).Opinions?
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reader, DepressedOne +, writes (15 May 2009):
DepressedOne is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes, I've definitely stopped having sex with the other guy. I found out I was pregnant before there was really a chance for us to do anything else. Before I had the chance to call my ex and let him know about me being pregnant, he called and suggested I take a pregnancy test because he's been feeling really tired and naseuated (sp) lately. I told him I did. So we're going from there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): hoping that you have already stopped having sex with this other guy as well.
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reader, DepressedOne +, writes (11 May 2009):
DepressedOne is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to everyone who responded! I'm fairly certain (and hoping) the ex is the father since I know for sure the condom didn't break with the other guy. And doc gave me a due date of Jan 1, which would be too early for the date with the other guy.
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reader, meg2989 +, writes (11 May 2009):
 I'm almost 110% that it is infact your exes baby. Good luck honey.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2009): agre with your conclusion if that's what the figures show - and also the other guy wore a condom.
BUT there is only one way to be sure.... get the blood test done. Everything else is guess work.
Star.x.
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (10 May 2009):
 I'd bet it is your ex's baby, if you have fallen pregnant to his pre-cum before and were not fully protected with him, well the odds do lean that way.
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