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writes:I really like this guy that I met online. we have been talking for a couple of months now and in no way is he a creep or anything. He's even introduced me to his older bro and his sis in law. His parents even know about me and i have spoken to them but the problem is with my age. I'm 17 in a months time but I told him that I was 18 going on 19. He's 30. I don't know what to do? How should I tell him? What do you think his reaction would be?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2009): It's not that big a lie so I don't think he'd react that badly...but if he really is a good guy he will break it off with you.
And also? I don't believe for a second those people were his family.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2009): You are his victom. Dont be stupid. This perv would be interested in any 16 or 17 year old girl who gave him the time of day. For some foolish reason, your just the fool who did. This fool was looking for a sucker on-line and you took the bate. The problem is that he has you convinced that he is not some kind of creep when that is exactly what he is. Come on kid. Ask yourself this question, what does a 30 year old man want with a 17 year old girl? Other than sex with a minor? Why is he not intersted in women his own age (and dont buy the line that you are just so mature and age is only a number)? Listen, when this fool is 35, 40 and 45, he will still be interested in girls that look 16 or 17 and probably still looking for them on-line. You know why? Cause he is a creep!
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reader, pebble +, writes (10 May 2009):
 So you've seen first hand how easy it can be to make things up when talking online. Now you should think about the things he has said to you and how many of them are true...To be honest, I don't think any 30 year old man talking to a 16 year old girl online has good inentions. If he has been talking sexual to you he can get in a lot of trouble with the police. If he has, then he would be wise to cut all contact with you when he finds out you're not the adult he thinks you are.You cannot have a relationship if you are going to lie about your age. At some point it will have to come out and you will have a lot of explaining to do.I would be very worried if he still wants to continue with this after he finds out you're not actually 18.Be very very careful, and good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2009): A relationship founded on a lie will continually bring up trust issues!
I would tell him the truth right away.
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