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Why don't guys go out with girls with low self-esteem?

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Question - (10 May 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 10 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

why don,t shallow good looking guys like fat girls why are we not good enough to be seen with .i feel so inferior that i won,t ever get a boyfriend becasue my weight and lack of social skills.good looking guys always have girlfriends how is this ?and girls like me are left on the side lines.

why is it always the good looking guys always girlfriends and not just girlfriends good looking one the ones like us are made suffer life lonlyness because we can not contend .good looking guys are never short a girlfreinds

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A female reader, bootyboot United States +, writes (10 May 2009):

i think guys like girls with a good attitude, who are fun and happy and well-adjusted...unless they have a problem themselves. would you want to be with a guy that hated himself and was 'poor me' all the time? i doubt it. unless you like to fix people, and i strongly recommend you don't do that!

so cheer up, work on yourself, take care of your looks, your life, get some hobbies, be happy!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2009):

Take care of yourself, diet and excercise and I am sure it will make a difference. Guys like girls who take care of themselves. Dont feel sorry for yourself and say, "im to lazy to excercise and to undiciplined to eat right cause I'm not that important to myself", and then ask the world "why doesn't anyone like me"? Like yourself first and prove it by taking care of yourself. It will change your life.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2009):

Guys like girls who are up for a laugh, and judging by your entry, your pessimistic and not really projecting that sort of positivity at the moment.

Just relax with it and stop worrying so much about what they think of you, talk to them as friends first.. it'll end up happening before you've even realised it :)

gd luck!

xxxxxxxxxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2009):

becasue any guy i truly like never likes me back.i mean never

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