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writes:I am just 22 have been marrid to my husband for almost 2years.Recently i have caught him watching gay porn and when i asked him that if he wants to tell me something or if he is a gay he denied it.After that he stopped for a week and then started again.I frequently tell him how much i love him and i care for him he says that back to me but i cant help stop wondering why deos he watches the gay porn.He never makes any sexual move towards me whenever we have sex its just me starting it.When i onfronted him he said for me not to worry that he will not have any other sex partner but...Ilove him so much that i cant force him to be with me but cant be without him.annand at the same time his not admitting it either.I feel so helpless and so confussed pliz some whose got more expirience in marriage or is older can anyone just help me.....please.
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reader, whitemoor5  +, writes (10 May 2009):
 Some men have idle curiosity about other men in a sexual way.Your husband may be one of them.He could be gay or bisexual, but then again he may not be.Be calm about this, try and see why he watches gay pornographic materials, there could be an innocent explanation.Basically, don't be overly suspicious - be gentle and calm.One agony uncle's opinion.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (10 May 2009):
 Sounds to me like he is gay or at least way being bi-sexual.
He never initiates sex with you? How long does it take for him to be "ready" if you get my drift. While all men are different does it take longer then you would expect for a young hetero guy with a woman?
From his response, I get a suspicion that he might be gay but has chosen hetero for appearances.
"When i onfronted him he said for me not to worry that he will not have any other sex partner but..." Not the words of a hetero partner.
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