A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:we had a breakup recently ...it was a year old relationship ....she has taken care of me and loved me like her own child...all i can say is she loved me crazily and has supported me a lot ....she said she can cross any limits to see me happy ...but the truth was different, i liked her only as a friend and decided to break the news ...it was so painful and heart wrenching for me to hurt her ! my heart was broken into million pieces when i dumped her and i swear never to play with anyone's sentiments :-(...i was so childish as i never had any girlfriend and she was my first friend ! today when i see her on facebook chatting with other people, idk why, but i feel the pain in her messages..she's definately not happy after losing me! i pray day and night for her to get over this...i am not happy either...please dont misunderstand that i love her, i just miss being with her and her love and care..but it had to happen some day and i unrooted this before it could get deeper ...i have broken all contacts since a month now...just hoping that everything gets fine ...please give your opinion dear aunts ... i know i did the right thing but some kind of guilt is there inside me and it is not fading! thank you ...
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reader, freebird  +, writes (10 May 2009):
 Hi there,I feel that its not breaking up which matters but rather how you do it. You should not feel guilty if you have been honest to yourself and your GF. I guess you did the right thing. You did not leave her for someone or have been dishonest. And you are doing the right thing by stopping all contact. that shows that you care!! Keep praying for her .Time and trust will heal all the wounds!
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