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writes:Hi. Please help me as I'm running out of time.Please skip to the end for the problem but it's easyer to understand Reading the full thing. I've known my friend who is a girl for about 5 years now, we know each other so well we even say "love you " at the end of phone calls, texts, emails etc. But the problem is I HAVE loved her for at least 4 of the five years. I know that it sounds stupid for me to say that I love a girl at the age I'm at but I do, each time she has had a boyfriend I've wanted to rip out his throat. I did ask her out once 5 years ago and I didn't relise that I had chosen it at a bad time as another lad was getting his mates to pruessure her into going out with him. Also my friend I'll call him J knew how I felt about her and went out with her for a few weeks, at this point my nana died and after standing watching her cuddling and kissing him made me break down (this was last year although I said it was greif).Ok this is the real problem thought you should know the hhistory first. We r extreamly close we've been on holiday together 4 times skiing, I still love her thoughtly but in about a week and a half we will be leaving school to go into sixth form I'm remaining at my regular school but she is going somewhere else, please tell me what I should do I dealt what to go out with her and she see herself that the next person she will go out with would be someone like me. I can't let it end like this what should I do??????????Thank you Isolated.
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reader, anoms +, writes (11 May 2009):
 if i was you i would pic a time when you both have a moment to sit down and tell her everything you just said in your post, tell her how long you'v liked her, tell her it herts to see her with other guys etc and ask her if she ever considered you bf material. if she says no then move on cause she isnt going to be around when she changes school, but if she says yes then try and make it work, but dont be too worried about the outcome cause somthing tells me you wont be too bothered once you change schools, but its worth a shot, so gudluk
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