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female
age
30-35,
*elplesslover
writes:Dear Cupid: I've known this boy for a while now, I'd say about three months. The first month we actually talked was over the internet. We had talked like that for about a month and then I started meeting his friends. After me and his friends got acquainted I had not a heard a word from him. The last thing he had asked me was if I was single and why. My friend also had told me that one day she saw him and all he could was talk about me, she said that my name had not left his mouth. Likewise she told me that one of his friends had complained to her saying he would not shut up about me. Before the whole internet conversation I only saw him a couple of time’s but we had not really talked, the majority of us talking was over the internet, primarily due to the fact that he had not been showing up to school. (We're seniors) Towards the end of April he spontaneously messages me asking to meet up at the beach, I agree and practically go all the way to the beach with butterflies not once leaving my stomach. Once I got there we talked and talked, mainly about him and then about me. When we got to the beach he tried to persuade me to swim with him but seeing as I'm horrible I denied his request. In doing so he lifted me of the sand and started carrying me. As the day progressed he took my out for pizza and it was so adorable because at one point he says "I know you like me." I pressed him to continue but he didn't. Long story short he kept asking why I wasn't in any relationship and what I thought about flings and what not. When he brought me home we hugged but then his head hit mine and I said something sarcastic and we separated. My friends all tell me he wanted to kiss me but I surely doubt that. Ever since we went out that day he hasn't called or messaged me. My question is, should I bother anymore, should I just move on with my life and forget about him, or should we just stay friends? - Utterly confused and helpless romantic in need.
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reader, Helplesslover +, writes (10 May 2009):
Helplesslover is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I mean I would kiss him, but he hasn't talked to me since I really don't know how to take the silence! Any help other toughts?
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (10 May 2009):
 Why don't you take the initiative and kiss him?
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