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26-29,
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writes:ok so there is this guy that i really like and have liked for a long time and i went to a dance and he was there. i know him but we are definantly NOT close!!! anyways i really like him and i wanted to dance with him but i didnt want him to say no because i know his parents really well and i babysit his sister and then seeing him (if he said no ) would be aquard!! i really want to date this guy but i dont want to ask him .....for 2 reasons 1. if he said no cuz he doesnt like me things whould be weird and 2. i have trouble even saying hi to him cuz every time i look into his eyes or even look at him at all i just turn all red and stutter and really just want to run away!! i hope someone else has felt that way about a guy and im not crazy!!!! any ways i cant think of a way to be confident around him and i cant find the attitude to "not care" what happens....i need a way to talk to him .....every time i think about talking to him i start to freak about what i will wear and stupid stuff like that!!! ( icant call him) i dont know what to do i really like him but like i said we dont talk so i have absoloutly no idea if he likes me at all??!! i could always ask one of his friends to tell him i like him or ask him if he likes me!! or is that weird.....???? i REALLY like him and i really dont know what im asking here ...i just need some good advice !!!! plzz thanks!! :) Reply to this Question
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reader, Trias21 +, writes (10 May 2009):
You should stop thinking too much.
Follow you feelings, ask him for dance and let God to take care of the rest.
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