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writes:i grew up believing that virginity is the best gift u can offer to ur husband so up to now im still waiting for that lucky guy to come. but until when should i wait? im already 41 yrs old and still a virgin. there are times i wondered and curious what it would feel like to be intimate with somebody. but the most likely candidate for now is a married man. will i go for it? or just remain wondering and curious for the rest of my life. arent we all entitled to commit mistakes in our lifetime as long as we repent afterwards. a good man is not without sin.......
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009): you treasured your virginity for so long yet now you want to throw it away with a married man. please rethink your decision.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (11 August 2009):
 Out of the question, leave him alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questiontks for ur advices!!! all my life i always try to do the right thing. the only boyfriend i had, left me for another woman because i have limitations. i reached my age that no one seems to be interested to me anymore. out of curiosity i want to try this with this married man whom im beginning to feel very fond of. i cant just pick any man, i want to do it with someone i liked. its just for the sake of experience and no plan to destroy his marriage
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (11 August 2009):
 To be blunt, if you are 41 and still a virgin there is more going on then just believed you should wait until marriage.
Does the wife of the man you consider having sex with deserve to be cheated on?
I get the feeling you got some really mixed up values. It is okay to sin as long as you repent afterwards? Catholic by any chance? Explains all the pedo-priests. Hey, it is okay to rape murder and pillage, just as long as you say sorry afterwards.
There is more going on then just a single woman wanting to wait until marriage.
Why no-one else? Why this guy? What is missing from your story?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009): I dont think that you should lose your virginity to a married man. Even if you are not married you can still meet a charming guy who will sweep you off your feet that you can be intimate with. Dont do it, its not the right thing to do.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (11 August 2009):
Of course you shouldn't lose your virginity to a married man. Are you nuts? If you are so curious to know what sex feels like, I'm sure there is some single guy in the Philippines that would be more than happy to educate you. Find him.
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