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writes:I think I am currently with the love of my life, but due to my young age I am wanting to hold off on marriage until I am atleast 20. I think he is "the one" but because of my young age, I do not want to jump into things too quickly and regret it later. I have thought about and discussed several important issues with him and I know if we marry I won't be acting impulsively but I must ask married and/or engaged couples....how did you know your partner was "the one"? =) Thank you for those who help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2009): There really isn't anyone that is destined to be our perfect match. That's just embellishment from romantic novels and movies. In the real world of men and women there are certain people with whom we have better affinities for attaching ourselves to and people call this chemistry. This may be due to pheromones, attractiveness and similar attitudes at discourse and outlook on life.
When you find someone that meets this criteria you'll realize that they aren't necessarily "the one" because, as this website gives evidence to, they may be married, attached to someone else and you feel this magnetism nevertheless.
It is only when you find someone that is single and available and whose chemistry jives with yours that you begin thinking they may be a possibility at building a lifelong relationship.
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reader, simply.megan +, writes (11 August 2009):
If he is the one you won't be asking, you'll just know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009): when everything just feels right -thats when you know! it all just feels natural!!
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reader, Jolin  +, writes (11 August 2009):
 how do you know if my bf is the one?
you will just know that. time will tell. it's hard to describe, but you just know that.
When you naked your mind, go through to the deepest inside your heart..ask to yourself :"do i really want to live with this man?" answer honesty to yourself with your heart. No conditions..just feel it
good luck ^_^
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009): I knew.. that's it. Like when I look at my labtop and I know it's pink, I knew he was the one about a month and a half into our relationship. I mean, that's all I can really say. It wasn't an issue i had to go over in my mind, there was no doubt whatsoever. I didn't have to ask anyone what it feels like to make sure it was it.
I don't know how helpful this is, but you asked for personal experience. ;) take care
~Sy.
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