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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hello,Right then basically i need some advise, me and my boyfriend met on a flirting website now we split up a few months ago but are back together now after having a heart to heart and everything has been great until now.While we split up he was using the flirt site (as i kept checking) but he was also telling me that he still wanted to be with me just needed some time to his self blah blah. I obviously had my sucpisions as he met me on there so what was to say he wouldnt meet someone else, so i decided to set up a fake account found a pic of a pretty girl but not too pretty so it wasnt ovbious and checked out his profile, it wasnt long before he was messaging this girl constinatly i then decided to up the ante and see if he wanted to meet....of course he agreed so i made some excuses and logged off never went back on again.We got back together and i forgot all about it things hav been amazing between us, then yest i was moaning about my laptop top being slow so he told me to drop it off when i went to work and he would sort it out. The pic i used for this fake account i had deleted but it was in my recycling bin so he found ut when he went to delete the recyling bin....he is not happy and wants to know why i lied to him i really dont know what to say.Thats not all thou, he has a 2 year old son who is brilliant and has him every weekend and 2 days in the weeks, the one day his son wanted to see a certain pic so my boyfrind got it and showed it him, he then showed me, it was a pic of him his son and his ex....now i have never seen her and wanted to remember what she looked like so when they left the room i quickly took a pic of it.....i really dont know why but i ai. that was also in my recycle bin as i didnt want or need it but he saw that and was not happy either.I dont know what to say i really dont, now he thinks im a liar and i fear he will not trust me anymore but i dont want to lose him.sorry this is so long, any advise would be very grateful x
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2009): He's probably wondering what you are going to do with the picture. You seem to get up to all sorts of stuff. If things are not working out a guy will seek a place where things do, and what's wrong with that? It's more so that he doesn't know what you get up to the second his back is turned. You could say I'm a little imperfect in some areas and you've shown me that in some ways I need to make some changes. I don't expect you to forgive me overnight. Then go and have a talk about relationships with your parents or some-one who is older.
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