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*hanterria
writes: Okay im 18 years old and when i was 14 i had an abortion and every since then my period hasnt been regular....but the past 6 months ive been keeping up with my cycle and it seems like its regular now cause its every 32 days....but my last period was on may 30 2009, and it didnt come on in june but on july 5 it camed on for about 3 days and it wasnt really a period but okay i have taken over 20 pregnacy test and probably 15 of them were postive(my aunt give me the tests before you ask,and i took so many cause my friend has had fake postives test)....so i went to the clinic in my town and they also said i was pregnant when i took the test they gaved me.....but two days later i took another hpt for my mom and it was negative....so i went to the er cause i was sorta hurting and i thought it was the best way to know and quicker way....but i took the blood test and it camed out negative so i didnt push the issue anymore cause i thought it was just in my head...but now its aug and my period hasnt come on and now its five days late....so im thinking am i pregnant...i be sick and tired all of the time...my stomach is getting bigger than normally and its sorta hard plus i have terible headaches...i have a little back pain and side pain and its feel like my stomach be hurting even more but its no sign of any period not even a brownish blood.....i dont know if its in my head or wat???
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reader, shanterria +, writes (13 August 2009):
shanterria is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks so much
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reader, DizzyLizzy +, writes (11 August 2009):
Hi, definately go to the doctor, a gynecologist and explain the situation and I would also definately consider having an ultrasound done. Even if you are not pregnant it could help detect the problem further and if you are pregnant this will be the best way to find out how far along you are considering how long this has been going on. You can spot at any point in your pregnancy and the sooner you find out the better it will be for you and your baby,providing you are pregnant. I had a friend who was pregnant and didn't even know until she was in labor!!! Quite a shock! But it's always better to be safe than sorry, and you don't want to find out when it's too late. And from now on you should really make a great attempt at using birth control, you and your partner so if one fails you have a back up plan.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009): I have never heard of anyone having quite so many confusing test results. Did the doctor not give you a reason when you had the 'official' ones done? Perhaps you could have a scan to know for sure? I think you need some professional advice because doing self-tests is just messing with your head and the stress may be causing you to miss periods in itself. Perhaps find somewhere reliable to get a test and explain what you have been through over the last couple of months so they understand the confusion first and can perhaps be extra careful.
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reader, love-struckxo +, writes (11 August 2009):
How could you take twenty pregnancy tests and they are all postive, but then in the end your not even pregnant.
It really doesn't make sense to me. It's quite possible you are pregnant and you don't even know it. I would suggest going to the doctor and explaining your concern.
But it could be all in your head. Maybe subconciously you hope you are pregnant? For whatever reason? When that happens your mind can actually play tricks on you and you will actually get symptoms of pregnancy.
Enough said.. Just go to your doctor. Good luck.
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