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writes:Q1.Hey, im 15 yr old female, i went on habbo few months back and i met this boy tht was just interested in talking to someone and we got chatting. I was bored and just felt like meeting new people and we've got to know eachother quite well and we were getting along great. I was slowely falling for him :/ and i felt like he needed to know, he told me he liked me back and ever since hes been acting weird towards me answering with one word answers and just not being the same... i know this is probably my own fault but what do you think i should do? P.S he lives in scotland and i like in devon. :/Q2I feel awkward because this boy i talk to on msn, is startin to grow on me, hes great to talk to an all but i dont know if im starting to have a crush on him or if its normal because ive never met him in person and probably never will. Need advice please [mod note - both questions were from the same person, so have put it into one]
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah of course
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reader, The Gentle Man +, writes (11 August 2009):
 All I can say is if you are planning on meeting this person take an adult or a friend with you. In my work I see kids playing on Habbo and I've had to report more than one groomer on Habbo so be careful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your advice :)
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reader, xAx +, writes (11 August 2009):
 If i were you, i'd make him come and see you.
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reader, xAx +, writes (11 August 2009):
Oh gosh, this sounds so like me. When you meet people on habbo it's fun, but after a while the excitment goes, people get bored, that's probably why he is not answering you one word answers.
Also, it is easy to like someone you met over the internet as they can be as nice as possible as it's msn. It's easy to pretend to be nice as you cannot see their body language and over msn everyone has time to think before they right. I'm not saying meet him, as he could definately be someone else. You may have seen him him on webcam you might say. He lives to far away and you haven't know him for that long and cannot trust him.
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reader, Spannah96 +, writes (11 August 2009):
I think you need to be sooooo careful in these sittuations!! I would say for one all of these chatroom sites are reeeaaally dangerous and falling for somebody you don't know is so risky, i would say move on from these people and find someone safe you know is your age and you can trust. I hope this helps :) x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeh he goes on webcam and talks to me over mic till like 4 in the mornin :) and yeh i was plannin on taking my friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009): I agree, for now it's just a crush. If you plan on meeting up with him, I think you should be VERY careful. Meet in daylight in a busy public place, and take a friend with you. Before all this though, make sure that the guy you're talking to is who he says he is, either by him going on webcam or talking to you on the phone first.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe is 16 :/ btw
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell he said he would come down and spend a week down here because he has family in devon and he said he wants to spend some time together because theres more to people than just msn :) what do you think?
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (11 August 2009):
 With regards to your Habbo guy, that is never going to happen! You just live way to far apart, its a bit silly to think that you can have a relationship with someone who is at the opposite end of the country!
What you are feeling for him is a crush - you like his personality but you dont have real feelings for him because they can only happen when you are with someone face to face. There is so much more to relationships than just chatting - there is a lot to be said for the way a guy looks at you, the way he makes you feel when you are with him.....physical interaction is so important. While being able to talk to each other is an important thing, you need a lot more to really develop true feelings for each other.
Put this down as a crush and keep the guy as a friend. Nothing more will ever come of it so dont think about it too much. Look for a guy that lives nearby so you can enjoy all the benefits of having a real-life boyfriend!
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009): Dont feel akward, a crush is a natural thing.
It could well be that he is just interested in flirting on-line and that is as far as his interest goes. What age is he?
It may be that he doesnt actually feel the same way but didnt want to hurt you, in which case, send him a final message asking him straight out if hes into you, and if you get a one word reply then move on, there will be other guys.
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