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Already had sex is it going to hurt this time too?

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Question - (11 August 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 11 August 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Ok so i already had sex before well my first time it was pretty painfull. I gotten fingered a few times. But my main concern is will it still hurt this time? Should he finger me before we have sex.I dont think we can use a lube because we are using a condom.

But help please!

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A male reader, Fatherly Advice United States +, writes (11 August 2009):

Fatherly Advice agony auntDon't use a petroleum based oil get a lube made for the purpose, K-Y Jelly is readily available in the U.S. at grocery stores and department stores. There are other better products, but K-Y is cheap and effective, and condom safe.

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A female reader, aphexinfinite United Kingdom +, writes (11 August 2009):

aphexinfinite agony auntyou can use some lubricnt which are useable with condoms but you are underage and it is illegal you should think wisely about sex and the effects of what would happen it if all went wrong and by the way if your not on the pill then you are higher at risk of getting pregnant only using a condom. good luck aphex

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A female reader, sexybrunette United States +, writes (11 August 2009):

you can use lubricant with a condom it just has to be water based. read labels carefully. Just take it slow (you on top is a good way to control how fast things go) make sure you are well lubricated either with your own fluids and or with the help of a water based lubricant.

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A female reader, heartbroken . x United Kingdom +, writes (11 August 2009):

Well you should use a comdom to stop getting preggers . But your choice . Just do fore play and then have sex .If you bled the first time its very unlikely you will bleed again .

Hope it helps

Heartbroken.x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009):

you can use lube with condoms.and no it shouldnt hurt this time.but before he should arouse you by rubbing your clit or something.

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