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51-59,
*ofeelingit
writes:I have a serious question. I know that as men or humanbeings in general, we have a tendency to over react or feed into our doubts. Let me tell you the story.I meant and married my wife via the internet. When I met her I was done. Totally in love. We both came from the same types of backgrounds and get this! We were born on the same day 3 years apart. Anyway, In the beginning she made a comment that she used to be an escort. I dont mean a on the street corner, I mean a five hundred an hour executive escort. When she made the comment I have to be honest, I found it incredibly erotic and hot. So, we marry three years later. We had a wonderful relationship and built a business and had no issues. Then the business failed and we lost everything. She went to work as I did for other firms. Her an executive assistant and me Chief Civil Engineer. Money wasnt what it was doing our own thing, but we made collectivley well over 190,000.00 a year. Any way, I started using pain killers for a kidney stone issues and it turned into a really bad addiction *since overcome* and we had a hard time of it. I tell you this because you need to understand the dysfunction that was present during this time. Anyway, she as an executive assistant had to take this trip to Atlantic City for 3 days for a conference. On the second night I awoke in a sweat! I mean heart pounding and sweating. As I walked down the steps my heart was breaking. I felt like I just saw my wife having sex. Now I am by far no freak. I dont buy into mind issues like this. So, I fought it off. Well she came home from the trip and was acting very evasive. We where in the bedroom and I wanted to have sex and she didnt. She gave in but wouldnt take her bra off. She was on top of me making love * or at least I thought it that* she was moving in a way she had never moved before. So, I was feeling really really taken back. I went to take her bra off and she stopped me. I moved her hands and took her bra off. There was a hicky on her breast. I mean I know a hicky when I see one. She expressed to me that it was a curling iron burn that she was curling her hair and slipped. I have to say. I have never in my life heard such a thing. I grew up with five sisters and have had many relationships and never ever saw or heard of this happening. I know things do happen, but coupled with everything else I was totally put off.Needless to say she quit her job soon after that. Here's my question. I know in my heart that she had an affair or just sex while there. How do I get her to tell me the truth. SHE IS A GREAT LIAR. I just want to truth. I would deal with it much better then this. HOW?
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reader, DESTINY 23 +, writes (20 October 2009):
 she had an affair and you know it . I wonder if shell do it again ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2009): important thing is she comes home to you. Let go of it (for now). If she continues to act strange or wants time to herself, then that is when the issue should be pressed, and i think the issue confronted to her and a truthfull statement made from herself. OTherwise forget about it.
Goodluck
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (11 August 2009):
 hmmm she has to kno you kno im guessing shes not ready to admit it to herself yet she doesnt want to ahve the talk either. just tell her you kno theres no sense in her hiding it women are great liars even if she tells you you probably wont be satisfied youll be wonderng if its the whole truth or half why do you want to kno so bad do you plan to divorce her if she had an affair if you confront her with sold evidence she will have kno choice but to admit it i suggest hiring private detectives.
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