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writes:okay, to start things off, i am 13. yes, yes i know very young for love, but the more we become closer the more i begin to relize hes not worth my time, he could care less, iv tried and tried i have enough stress, i cant b around him and his friends" bcuase he wont treat me the same, when realy they are my friends to. im sick of constanly giving and never reciveving. im basicaly done, iv had it, and i dont know what to do, iv gone love sick, what shall i do?:( Reply to this Question
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reader, Spannah96  +, writes (11 August 2009):
I think that he isn't worth the time, if he makes you feel like you are the only person giving in the relationship. Unless you think that you have trust or anger issues and are over reacting (i dont think you are) Then i would say dump him as soon as you can. But make sure you do this face to face and alone so you don't seem like the person who is not making the relationship work and also so that you will both be comfertable and no one is humiliated.
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reader, simply.megan +, writes (11 August 2009):
Find someone that gives a poot before you throw the L word.
I was in puppylove at 13 and though it wasn't with the same type guy, I went into it and gave it my all and got hurt to the point that if I sat here now and thought about it I want to literally kick myself in the butt for falling so hard knowing I was too young.
You seem smart enough to relize that your whole life is ahead of you espically with love, so having bfs is great, always fun..but very easy to get hurt if you let yourself go.
Save that L word for when your beyond sure (and beyod this age lol). That way it will be saved for a man that just might be worth it...this guy you discribed though..doesn't sound like hed even second look at the word. So don't rush urself hun, live and let live. And never feel obligated to throw that word around like most people do now, if you don't feel it don't say it. Its loving yourself that matters most right now.
Goodluck to ya girlie!!
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reader, Six_Floors_Left +, writes (11 August 2009):
 You should try to get time alone with him. Anything from a stude date to going to a movie just as friends. Most guys would act differently when they're with a girl instead of a group of people. If he doesn't show any sign of liking you as more than just friends then he probably isn't worth your time. And if he's not then just move on. I know that its not easy because i've been through it but eventualy the feelings u have for him will go away. This probably won't be the last time that your love sick. If it doesn't work out with him then there's going to be someone else. Still, it could work out. It might just take some time alone with you for him to show his real feelings.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009): if you had enough then just dump him. i mean you may think you love him but maybe its just puppy love, and if you go through enough stress like i said just dump him.
hope this helped
thanx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009): If he is not mature enough to handle your needs, you should leave him. Otherwise you can stay, do nothing, and be hurt and it will be your doing.
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