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writes:these two people knew each other from other parties.the woman come over to my 24yr old husband and said I don't have any place to sit, it's her house! He says sit on my lap and we will talk and she did. She sat on his lap and they french kissed for abt 20 minutes they became aroused and wanted privacy, they went into the laundry room and got even more aroused. When they came out of the L/R they got on the couch in Fam/Rm where the party was going on. He got on top of her their bodies were in sync. They were dry humping with clothes on. He said they were not drunk. Should I belive after more than 2hrs of foreplay he didn't get satisfied? Your ans, Please. This doesn,t ring true. Where was I? I was 4 months pregnant, sick as a dog in the guest rm sleeping. Got up the next AM and was told the story by my BGF. We were all co-workersThe o/w's husband was gay! My hsb and the o/w started their 10 yr affair that night. The second she left her her husb the affair ended???
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2009): OP i Really feel your pain but i am so confused by this. are you saying your hb had an affair with your friend for 10 years right under your nose. the 2 couples all played happy families for 10 years but nothing sexual happened , at all. i just cannot believe this. i think that your friend and your hb had been having a sexual relationship for 10 years.
"and while in the machine i was looking at the ceiling & out of nowhere a black & white movie started to play - it was their 10 year affair in complete detail" - did you only realise then that your hb was having an affair. did you confront him .what really happened. you say you are still with him. what is the state of your marriage. are your kids affected in any way. where is this friend now. has your hb's stopped his affair with your friend?
sorry to pry into your life but i am a details person.
whatever the outcome, you sound so emotional and so sad, an unbelievable story. how are you coping. what does your hb say to all this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2009): Ginalolbridga thank for your response to "husband's affair, where was I?" when i went on line with this i didn't plan on giving any more info than i have. but now that one person spoke to me i will say something that you might never be able to belive, it's hard for me to belive and i live it but it is the truth. at the time of that party we were married two yrs. after i knew what hsb did with o/w who was my friend, we had a fight that lasted a week. after that i SHUT DOWN. they had a ten year love affair right in front of me. NO SEX - they loved each other frm 1981 to 1991. nothing they did registered in my head. we went out with them to eat - away for weekends - fund raisers - parties - diner parties - overnight at their house. i lived for 27 years like nothing ever happened. we loved we laughed and brought up our family like the most loving couple you ever saw, i was having a wonderful life. two years ago I had to have a pet scan for cancer and while in the machine i was looking at the ceiling & out of nowhere a black & white movie started to play - it was their 10 year affair in complete detail
diagnosis ***POST TRAUMATIC STRESS SYNDRONE*** something happened that you cann't handle because it's so traumatic to you,that your mind turns off. THIS IS A SURVIVAL MODE.
i have been working with a counseor for almost 2 years to find the why in it all?
DO YOU BELIVE YOUR MIND CAN SHUT DOWN ON IT'S OWN? it's not a choice thing. YOUR MIND WILL TURN IT SELF OFF. IT'S SURVIVAL. yes i am still with my husband.
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