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How can I slow myself down and have a serious relationship?

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Question - (11 August 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 August 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *ale03 writes:

Every girlfriend i've had said i move too fast and because of this i've never had a serious relationship. Every time I seem to find a girl that I start to fall in love with I get dumped and hurt. I don't know how to slow down myself and i'm tired of the constant cycle of date for 2 weeks get dumps and get hurt for 2 months is there anyway that i can slow myself down and get a serious relationship with the next girl?

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A female reader, Spannah96 United Kingdom +, writes (11 August 2009):

How about instead of rushing into things with a girl you like, show her that you have other priorities, some girls think that guys are in relationships for the phsical stuff, maybe if you show your next girlfriend that you can be really understanding and communicate with her, these little things are what girls love! We love being told little things like you look nice and also show them your sensitive side :) Also tell the girl that you would like to take things slowly but still make it clear that you really like her! :) Good luck! I hope this helps :) x x x

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A female reader, cliffsgirl United States +, writes (11 August 2009):

females like for men to communicate, be understanding and lovable. so remember do not go into a relationship putting all your goals out with the person wait until they mention it and build on it. please do not rush or demand anyone what you want them to do. take your time and listen to them. you can do it!!!

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