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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hey so i just got a phone finally yay i got a few weeks ago! Anyways so i have this best freind who always texts she texts 24/7 and she always has her phone on and with her so when i got my phone i texted her the first day and we talked an talked and then the second and third day as well but now for about a week she hasnt been answering my texts and i know she's never home cuz shes just that kind of girl but i called and her mom said she was at a girls house that lived down the road. I dont know why shes ignoring me but i do know that she has been ignoring one of our other friends and im supposed to be her best freind so now im really upset because shes ignoring me :( what should i do ?? What should i say to her? Plzzz help!!!
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reader, sum4gvn  +, writes (12 August 2009):
 I'm a lot older than you, so my first response is to recommend that you ignore her and don't worry about the fact that she's kind of being a jerk. But one approach is to just ask her if you did anything to upset her. If she says "no" then try this, Limit your text to her to only the ones she responds to. For example if you text her and she doesn't text you back then don't text her again that day. The reason for that is because 1) She might be annoyed at your excitement about finally being able to text and she might feel like you're texting her too much, so, by limiting your texts to her you're giving her room to breathe and not feel pressure to text you constantly. And usually when your attitude to someone is more laid back then they tend to reach out to you. 2) Or she might feel like she's not as superior to you as she was before you got your phone(I could be way off on that one but it's a possibility)and she feels more threatend by you now because she sees you as more on her level. I don't know but don't obsess over it. Girls are mad one day and happy the next. Your best friend then your worst enemy. Time will tell. Good luck!
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