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anonymous
writes: im going to make this question short and sweet...why is it every relationship ive been in theyve cheated on me? i mean is there maybe something im putting across?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you elwood your totally right just i find it difficult to trust guys now so when a nice lad comes along i ruin it but thinking tht hes guna cheat on me :/ i know its dumb but im just used to it... your opinion is welcome harsh or kind lol just need advice
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reader, natnatxxx +, writes (12 August 2009):
What i relised is, in your teens, you get bored of people pretty easily. Theres so many more fish in the sea, and people find another one in a matter a time that may seem more of a catch? Most people will get cheated on sometime in there life, and its an awful feeling, so maybe you are going for the wrong type of lads, get to know how they work first before dating them youll soon work out if there loyal or not by there body language anyway.
But your still young, and theres still many different lads to experience in that time. you had a taste of the cheaters, maybe change your type, and you could get a lovely boy :)
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reader, elwoodbluelou +, writes (12 August 2009):
I used to get cheated on alot, too. I'm not going to say i'm an expert on this, or that my answer is right, but i'll take a guess.
Maybe you have the same problem i did, where you simply choose the wrong guys? Or maybe, if your unwilling to do anything sexual with him, he tries to get it from somewhere else?
That was the problem i had. I'm not telling you that you SHOULD do those things to keep him from cheating. Because if he cheats, then you don't want him around anyways, right?
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