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*licesgirlforever96
writes: Okay, I'm only 13 and I'm a female, and yet I'm completely in love, but the problem is, I'm also a lesbian. I'm in love with my best female friend and she is straight. She's always talking to me about her male crush and it kills me. If you've read Twilight: I fell like I could be the Edward to her Bella. I worry about her constantly because her mother treats her horribly and I can't stand to see her in pain. I came to my conclusion the night after my 13th birthday party in June. She gave me one "birthday smack" and the rest goes downhill from there. ANYWAYS!How should I tell her that I'm in love with her? And should I tell her in person or online to make the fear of rejection less evident when I talk to her?
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reader, alicesgirlforever96 +, writes (12 August 2009):
alicesgirlforever96 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, here's the thing :I used Twilight as an excuse to get closer to her back in October of '08 and I didn't even realixe it until I came to my little epiphany. I got "obsessed" with it and I relate stuff to it all the time now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2009): Did you really just use twilight to compare your affection? I'm sorry but that just caught me way off gaurd. I'm in the same boat you are kinda (without the twilight) except I'm a guy in love with my best friend, but I don't want to be gay and it's tearing me appart on the inside. My best advise to you is to just tell her how you feel in a casual sort of way, then see how it goes. If it goes bad just tell her you were kidding and then cherish the moments you get to spend together as friends. If it goes well, then good for you.
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