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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hey im looking for honest opinions please.. I met this boy in a bar about 5 weeks ago. We get on so well and speak almost everyday. Lately weve been hanging out a lot. Weve met eachothers parents and have stayed at eachothers houses (mostly without sex except recently) We have both said its like weve been best mates for years..He jokes about, saying hes scared because we get on so well and he cant keep away from me and all that. Anyway we didnt speak today so i started a stupid conversation on the internet and he was being silly back for about 2 minetes until he said 'yeah ive gota go, lataa' i said bye but he didnt actually go..i guess he just wasnt speaking to me, so i ignored it. Whats his game? We slept together the other night and he joked about not seeing me again because he got what he wanted. I didnt react and was like ok cool. Needless to say he came round to see me the next day and we hung out. I dont understand what hes doing..please help..any suggestions? is he scared or are his jokes half true?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2009): Guys do think like this sometimes. Even "nice guys" do. It's like a girl saying, "I might really just be marrying you for your money" or something. It's not a nice thing to say but people say it as a joke sometimes. Sometimes people are even only half-joking when they say it. Other times they're totally joking. don't think too much about it unless he keeps saying it and keeps acting like it.
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